Saturday, February 23, 2013

Invalidation and cuteness

Why is it when you need to talk to people they say really stupid stuff like "don't feel that way" 

are you fucking kidding me

If only I had thought of that
Most people don't know how to listen

Sean headed out of town this morning and I am feeling really low
I could use someone to talk to but I hate hearing trite advice
Its so meaningless and invalidating

Louis has been playing with one of Carmen's babies. It is really cute. We had to convince him he was a daddy not a mommy. 
cuteness overload
He is so cute



1 comment:

  1. My son thought he was a mommy for ages. Didn't worry me. He's almost 26 now. So far not a daddy. :)

    I think people say 'don't feel that way' because they don't know what to say when you (generic you) confide or share with them how you're really feeling. I think they just want you to say, "Oh I'm fine, how are you?"

    ((((hugs))))

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